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Welcome to Second Person
Table of contents and FAQ for new readers.
Dec 27, 2024
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Unschooling
You were taught to stop wanting
Jan 31
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Dating Apps Are Dead. And We Have Killed Them
The users are the product, and the product is turning to shit
Sep 21, 2025
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You Have 33 Bits
All the work of dating is selection. If you don't do it, it will be done to you.
Sep 10, 2025
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The Lost Men
A man finds himself when he finds out where he's needed.
Sep 2, 2025
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One Last Month of Second Person
A new job, a blog that's concluding, and a book that's taking shape.
Aug 27, 2025
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Uncut Gems
The cult of optionality makes people attractive and entirely impossible to date
Aug 18, 2025
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You Can Fix Him
You probably shouldn't. But if you really insist, at least do it the right way.
Aug 11, 2025
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