I don't see any reason you can't maximize both good yin and good yang. Guys should subtly arrange to spend more time with their crush, laugh at their crush's jokes, lightly touch their crush on the arm while flirting, etc. And girls can be free to ask a guy that they're confident they like to go on a date and get some food with them.
I don't see any reason you can't maximize both good yin and good yang. Guys should subtly arrange to spend more time with their crush, laugh at their crush's jokes, lightly touch their crush on the arm while flirting, etc. And girls can be free to ask a guy that they're confident they like to go on a date and get some food with them.
I think there are something like three ways to try to solve problems: Intuitively, empirically, and logically. Very complex problems will often want all three. For some problems, one or two of the options will make no sense.
In a game of a chess, intuition is when you look at a board and go with the move that feels right. Empiricism can help set some ground principles like that controlling the center is good. Logic is when you calculate several moves into the future to be certain which moves lead to material advantage or checkmate.
Solving problems empirically or logically is yang, solving intuitively is yin. But even analyzing a problem and trying to decide whether to use yin or yang is itself yang. Reading a blog post like this will always be yang. The way to improve yin in a yin way would be to work under a mentor or group, with them showing you the right move in various situations, and you learning to imitate and extend the principles to new situations, without ever fully consciously learning the rules
I don't see any reason you can't maximize both good yin and good yang. Guys should subtly arrange to spend more time with their crush, laugh at their crush's jokes, lightly touch their crush on the arm while flirting, etc. And girls can be free to ask a guy that they're confident they like to go on a date and get some food with them.
I think there are something like three ways to try to solve problems: Intuitively, empirically, and logically. Very complex problems will often want all three. For some problems, one or two of the options will make no sense.
In a game of a chess, intuition is when you look at a board and go with the move that feels right. Empiricism can help set some ground principles like that controlling the center is good. Logic is when you calculate several moves into the future to be certain which moves lead to material advantage or checkmate.
Solving problems empirically or logically is yang, solving intuitively is yin. But even analyzing a problem and trying to decide whether to use yin or yang is itself yang. Reading a blog post like this will always be yang. The way to improve yin in a yin way would be to work under a mentor or group, with them showing you the right move in various situations, and you learning to imitate and extend the principles to new situations, without ever fully consciously learning the rules