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Barbie in the Longhouse - Part 2
“You're gonna start getting sad and mushy and complicated”
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Barbie in the Longhouse - Part 1
“Humans make things up like patriarchy and Barbie just to deal with how uncomfortable it is”
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Painting Over the Female
I swear, officer, these women were objects when I got here
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Everything Is about Sex, Femininity Is about Power
It's a performance of peril and prestige, and everyone's watching.
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December 2024

November 2024

Your Personal Guide to Authentic Wanting
Knowing how to want in dating is difficult and personal. My subscribers deserve some personalized guidance.
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The Opposite of Resentment
The place where no relationship can blossom, and the slow, green, way out.
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Pods and Ends
Round up of podcast appearances and reflections on previous posts.
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Black Ops 4B
Some women are saying they won't date as long as Trump is in office. Everyone else is saying: "thank you!"
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Opposite and Equal
Dating grievances show you a mirror, not an enemy.
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